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Love, Rita

An American Story of Sisterhood, Joy, Loss, and Legacy

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A searing tribute of sisterhood and family, profound love and loss from the acclaimed author of The World According to Fannie Davis.

In Love, Rita Bridgett M. Davis tells the story of her beloved older sister Rita, who knew Bridgett before she knew herself. Just four years apart in age, as the two sisters grew into young adulthood they left behind their childhood rivalry and became best friends.

Rita was a vivacious woman who attended Fisk University at age sixteen, and went on to become a car test driver, an amateur belly dancer, an MBA, and later a popular special ed teacher; in doing so, she modeled for her younger sister Bridgett how to live boldly. And in the face of family tragedy, the two sisters leaned on each other to heal; their closeness grew, until Rita's life was cut short by lupus when she was forty-four. This led Bridgett to ask the simple, heartbreaking question: Why Rita?

Love, Rita is a brave and beautiful homage that not only celebrates the special, complex bond of sisterhood but also reveals what it is to live, and die, as a Black woman in America.

This moving memoir, full of joy and heartbreak, family history alongside American history, uses Rita's life as a lens to examine the persistent effects of racism in the lives of Black women—and the men they love. This poignant, deeply resonant portrait of an unforgettable woman and her impact on those she left behind is essential reading.

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    • Kirkus

      February 1, 2025
      Reflecting on the deep bond with a beloved elder sister. Davis grew up sensing that her role as the youngest child of five was to always let Rita, the sister closest to her in age, "shine." But deference did not spare the two from fights that stemmed from sibling rivalry and persisted into young adulthood. When their drug-addicted elder sister Deborah died, their relationship suddenly changed: Davis writes, "We stopped bickering...[and] refused to take each other for granted." As the pair moved in and out of schools, jobs, and relationships, they watched with mounting shock and horror as chronic disease, homicide, and domestic violence claimed each member of their family over the next two decades. Rita's own periodic struggles with lupus took her away from corporate life in the South to a teaching job in Detroit. Meanwhile, Davis' life in New York as a filmmaker, writer, and professor flourished. Their different life trajectories caused occasional friction between them, especially as Rita's condition worsened. Her tragic death at 44 marked the emergence of Davis' own awareness--which she demonstrates throughout this memoir--about ways in which white supremacy had worked against her loved ones' survival. The author's loved ones hadn't simply suffered individual misfortunes; they had been "weathered" into early deaths by a society hostile to black existence. Poignant and intense, this book not only explores the complexity of sister bonds but also brings to the fore how living in a racist society can destroy the health and well-being of non-white individuals and families. A powerful tribute to sisterhood and the complex fragility of Black lives.

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      February 1, 2025
      Davis painted a portrait of her mother in The World according to Fannie Davis (2019); here, she memorializes her older sister Rita, a vibrant, protective storyteller who made an outsize impact on those around her during her 44-year life. In her early twenties, Rita was diagnosed with lupus, a chronic autoimmune condition that required careful management, including managing stress. Davis recreates her sister's life through Rita's letters, interviews with friends and family, and her own journals. Davis connects her family's struggles to weathering, the physical toll wrought on people of color as a result of living in a racist society. As a Black woman in the second half of the twentieth century, Rita absorbed many traumas, including white coworkers cheering a KKK rally outside her Tennessee workplace and overt and implicit housing discrimination. The author and Rita lost each of their older siblings in tragic circumstances before losing their mother to colon cancer. As Davis considers how traumatic events impacted Rita's already struggling body, her heartfelt writing honors her sister's legacy and the many lives she touched.

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